3 Ways to Fight

A fight is a confrontation in which two or more people compete for dominance and respect. Though backing away from a fight is usually your best option, if you have to fight, then you need to know how to defend yourself and how to attack your opponent at the right time. Whether you're fighting on the street or fighting in controlled environment, knowing how to assume the correct stance and to target your opponent's weakest areas can save your life. If you want to know how to fight, just follow these steps.

Fighting Dirty

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   Kick your opponent where it hurts. If there are no rules in your fight, then your only goal should be to win. If you just want to win a fight, then you don't have to follow Fighting Etiquette 101 -- just try to get your opponent to be hurt, crippled, or to fall to the ground, giving you enough time to get away. Here are some ways to do it:
   

   • Knee your opponent in the groin. This is guaranteed to stop him in his tracks.
   • Low-kick your opponent in the groin, knee, or abdomen. Kick him using the bottom of your foot. Just make sure to do it quickly and to stay on balance -- you can easily be thrown off your game while you're kicking.
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   Attack your opponent's face. The face is another highly vulnerable place to attack. Hurting your opponent's eyes, nose, and face can be a great way to cause great pain and to slow down your opponent tremendously. Here are some methods to try:
   

   • Headbutt your opponent's face. Use your forehead to slam your opponent across his nose. This can break his nose if you do it the right way.
   • Poke his eyes with your fingers. This can cause excruciating pain and can blind and disorient your opponent for enough time for you to escape or cause more damage.
   • Punch him in the nose. This is a highly-effective place to cause some serious damage.
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   Go for the neck and throat. Hitting your opponent's neck and face is guaranteed to stop him cold, if only for a short period of time. If you really want to cause some harm, try these indelicate moves:
   

   • Punch your opponent in the back of the neck to make him black out temporarily.
   • Punch your opponent in the middle of his throat to cause damage to his airway.

Fighting Offensively

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   Get in fighting position. If you want to fight, you'll need to be in the fighting stance. To do this, just spread your legs about shoulder's width apart and bend your knees slightly so you're not standing completely upright. You need to stay balanced so you don't get thrown to the ground. Stay loose. Bounce slightly as you adjust your position by taking small steps, and keep your hands up to shield your face.
   

   • Clenching your teeth will make you less likely to get a broken jaw if you're punched.
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   Punch your opponent. The first thing you have to do is make your fist the right way. To make an effective fist, fold your four fingers downward into your hand and place your thumb on the outside of your fingers -- not on the inside, unless you want to break your thumb. Punch your opponent in his nose or stomach to cause some serious damage. The simple straight punch is best for untrained fighters. Here's how you do it:
   

   • Keep your elbow bent at a 30-45 degree angle in front of your face, and keep your hands up at all times.
   • Extend the fist along with your elbow and shoulder, straightening your arm.
   • Push your weight through your shoulder and into your arm, connecting the punch at the peak of your extension to get the most force for your hit.
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   Attack first. Once you've gained your footing, don't hesitate. Throwing the first punch is much more likely to throw off your opponent and will give you the dominant position in the fight. Don't spend too much time stepping around your opponent or trying to get in the perfect position. Instead, punch him once you have a clear shot.
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   Adapt your strengths to the fight. Use the beginning of the fight to get an idea for how your opponent performs. Base your own fighting objectives on your strengths and his or her weaknesses:
   

   • If you're taller, try to keep your opponent at a distance. Your longer limbs will allow you to strike over a distance that your opponent can't cover.
   • If you're shorter, hurry up and get close. They'll try to keep you at a distance to use their height to their advantage.
   • If you're faster, get in fast, strike fast, and get out fast. Do your fighting in effective bursts.
   • If you're slower, keep it simple. Make the opponent come to you, as opposed to chasing them.
   • Know your strengths, and use them at the right time. One calculated move far outweighs a dozen uncalculated ones.
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   Fight off your opponent if he's holding you from behind. This is a position you want to get out of as quickly as possible, before your opponent gets you on the ground and dominates you. So, here are some moves to try to incapacitate him and turn back around in the right direction:
   

   • Stomp on his instep. Land your heel as hard as you can on the instep of your opponent's foot and wait for him to yelp in pain.
   • Do the backwards headbutt. Fling back your skull until you hit your opponent's nose. He'll let go of you after you've done the damage.
   • Wring his fingers. Instead of grabbing his wrists, put your hands around all of his fingers and wring them until he gives up.
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   Conserve your energy. Concentrate your energy in your moves, and don't make so many moves that you tired yourself out halfway through the fight. Some opponents will try to make you "dance" so that they can attack once you're exhausted. Be prepared to practice 'Aikido'. Taking a few punches whilst protecting yourself can exhaust and mentally defeat your opponent.
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   Never look away from your opponent. Never ever look away from your opponent. Sometimes your opponent will do nothing if you look away but more experienced fighters will use that situation and may knock you out.
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   Fake an attack. Every time you attack, you become vulnerable. If you punch, for example, that arm is no longer available for defense, and the opponent might block the punch and go for your now vulnerable spot with the other hand. If you fake an attack, however, your opponent will respond with a counterattack and become vulnerable. The key is to convince the person that you will make a certain move, and to anticipate how they will respond.
   

   • You can mix fake attacks with real attacks so that the opponent becomes confused and can't predict whether you'll follow through with your moves.

Fighting Defensively

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   Take a punch to the head. Though not getting punched is your best option, if you're fighting, it's likely that you will get punched at some point, so it's better to know how to avoid it. To take a punch to the head, move toward the punch, tightening your neck and clenching your jaw to minimize the impact. Aim your forehead at the punch, so your opponent ends up hurting his hand instead of hurting your nose, cheek, or jaw.
   

   • Leaning in toward the punch instead of away will actually minimize the impact of the punch, because your opponent will have less time to gain momentum.
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   Take a punch to the stomach. If a punch is coming at your stomach, you should tighten your stomach muscles without sucking your stomach in. If you can, try to move around so you get hit in your sides instead of right in your stomach, which can damage your organs and cause enough pain to double you over.
   

   • Avoid holding your breath or you will literally have the wind knocked out of you. Instead, try exhaling slightly before the punch, which will naturally tighten your stomach.
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   Avoid getting charged and tackled. If your opponent tries to tackle you, then he'll come low to the ground and will wrap his arms around your waist and hips as he tries to knock you off balance. Don't try to grab his head, though this may be tempting. Instead, move your hands forward and grip his hips or upper body, trying to push him away.
   

   • After that, you've created enough distance and regained your balance, so you can try to kick your opponent in the groin or stomp on his feet.
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   Avoid the chokehold. If your opponent is on your back and has you in a chokehold, don't try to bend your knees and toss him over your back. This will actually tighten his grip and it could cause some serious damage, especially if you're not strong enough to hold his weight. Instead, turn the choke by grabbing the opponent's arm that's around your neck, tilting to the side to create some space between the two of you until he slides sideways off your back.
   

   • If you tilt sideways enough, you may even make your opponent fall to the ground. Once you've got him down, you can try to pin him to the ground on his back.
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   Know what to do if you're knocked to the ground. If your attacker has you on your back, don't turn away from him and try to get up. Looking away from him is a way to guarantee that you will be hit right away. Instead, keep looking at your attacker and raise your legs, trying to kick him as hard as you can to his shin, knee, or groin. If he's low to the ground, go for his face. Once you've caused enough damage, you can pop back up.
   

   • Once you've kicked or hurt your opponent, making him spring back, roll to the side and then use your arms to support your body weight as you regain your footing.
   • Continue looking at your opponent, even when you try to get up. You may think he's hurt, but he can come right back at you while you're still struggling to stand.
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   Don't let your opponent pin you to the ground. If you're on the ground with your opponent, you need to prevent him from mounting you, or getting on top of you at all costs. Get on your side or belly -- your chances of escape are better than if he has you pinned on your back. Once you've assumed this position, try to scramble as fast as you can to get up and away.
   

   • If he has you pinned to your back, he'll be easily able to pin you down and punch you in the face. Avoid this maneuver at all costs.
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   Yell. If you want to get out of the fight as soon as possible, just yell your heart out as you're fighting. This makes it much more likely that someone will come along and scare off your opponent, thus bringing you to safety. Even if you're in a place that feels deserted, try yelling as loudly as you can anyway, in hopes that someone will come along. Yelling will also throw off your opponent because he won't expect you to yell in the middle of a fight.

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5 Safe and Effective Ways to Lose Weight Fast

Tired of carrying around those extra pounds? The best way to lose weight and keep it off is to create a low-calorie eating plan that you can stick to for a long time. If you just want to drop a few pounds fast, there are plenty of techniques and tips you can adopt to help you reach your short-term goals, too. Scroll down to Step 1 to learn more.

Exercising to Lose Weight

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   Make time for exercise. Exercising might actually make you gain a few pounds of muscle when you first start, but it's an essential component of any long-term, sustainable weight loss plan. Regardless of how busy you are, it is essential that you make time to exercise each day if you actually want to lose weight and keep it off. Even little things like walking instead of driving to the store can affect how quickly you lose weight.
   

   • Exercise while doing chores. Make as many trips upstairs as possible, walk the dog three times a day, and dust, sweep, and mop with vigor.
   • Increase the amount of walking you do. Choose the stairs over the escalator and park as far from the store as you possibly can.
   • Start a hobby that involves moving around a bit, even if it doesn't sound like "exercise." Gardening, building small projects, working on cars, or playing with animals are all great ways to burn calories.
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   Try out a circuit training program. If you are trying to lose weight quickly for a particular event and don’t care about keeping the weight off, you can try a condensed workout routine. Many women’s and health magazines as well as personal trainers offer similar condensed workout routines designed to maximize weight loss and visible physical slimming within only a few days of beginning the regimen.
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   Be realistic about the type of exercise you can do when starting a new program.If you are hoping to lose weight and keep it off, you will have to do more than a condensed fitness program. The best way to get into exercising is by picking exercises that you are actually going to do and, hopefully, enjoy. If you hate running, don’t make it your main form of exercise--you will need much more motivation each day than if you picked an exercise that you actually enjoy. Instead, try out different exercises until you find a few that you really love, like swimming, biking, or even Zumba.
   

   • Remember that games like volleyball, tennis, and even Frisbee can help you burn calories while having a blast, making exercise a social and fun activity you will want to enjoy everyday.
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   Take up cardio training. While a combination of cardio and resistance training are important for overall body health, cardiovascular training
   

   For best results, include both moderate and high intensity aerobic exercise.

   is what will help you shed those pounds quickly. Weight and resistance training do not lead to immediate weight loss, but can trigger your metabolism to use energy more efficiently.
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   Keep your exercise regimen interesting. Variety is the key to both promoting a healthier you and keeping you motivated. When you do the same exercise day in and day out, you put yourself at a higher risk of injuring yourself. You are also more likely to become bored, thus making it harder to find the motivation to keep exercising. While at the gym, switch between machines, join a fitness class, and add some resistance training into your schedule.
   

   • Perform low impact aerobic activities. Moderate aerobic workouts incorporating brisk walking, cycling, aerobic machines, or swimming not only burn calories they also keep your heart healthy.
     
     
   • Pump some iron. Resistance training, weight training, can help both men and women stay lean by building muscle and raising metabolism for a constant passive benefit. Weight loss strategies that incorporate both aerobic and weight training boost calorie burn significantly.
     
     
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   Choose workouts that require your entire body to exert an effort. This way, you work every muscle group and burn calories with more muscles at one time,
   

   Rest at least 24 to 48 hours between strength training sessions on the same muscle group.
   Take one or two days off exercising each week.

   like multi-tasking with your exercise. For instance, combine a form of resistance training (try raising small dumbbells overhead as you work) with your arms while you jog or cycle with your legs.
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   Get enough rest. Being properly rested will help you maintain sufficient energy throughout the day, making you less likely to overeat and less prone to injury during physical activity. Sleep deficiency has actually been linked to an inability to lose fat, so getting enough sleep can really help you on your path to losing weight.

Rapid Weight Loss Diets

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   Do a juice cleanse. This method is also known as the Hollywood diet. There are many different kinds
   

   Most juice fasts last one or two days. Three days is an extreme fast.

   of juice cleanses out there. However, the main concept is to only consume juices made from raw fruits and vegetables. The cleanse will remove toxins from your system, helping you lose weight while also making you feel more alert and healthy.
   

   • You can either buy a cleansing package from a health store or company online, or you can buy your own juicer.
   • Be sure you incorporate plenty of vegetables into your juicing routine. Fruit juice contains a lot of sugar, and drinking a lot of it will cause you to gain weight instead of losing it.
   • Some of the most popular cleanse brands include Cooler Cleanse, BluePrint, and Life Juice.
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   Consider the Master Cleanse.
   

   This is an extreme, short-term diet. It is not recommended for healthy, long-term weight loss.

   The master cleanse is a liquid-only diet that consists of a “lemonade” (lemon, cayenne pepper powder, maple syrup, and water), a salt-water drink, and herbal laxatives. The diet lasts for 16 days—three days of easing into the diet by only eating raw fruits and veggies, 10 days of the liquid only diet, and three more days easing back into solid foods.
   

   • Be aware that this diet should only be done for very short-term weight loss and is supposed to function as a detoxifying cleanse rather than a strict weight-loss routine.
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   Try the water diet. This diet involves drinking a daily total of about 64 fluid ounces (8 cups) of cold water,
   

   This is not a water-only diet! Continue to eat healthy meals. A water-only diet is dangerous and can lead to later weight gain due to a slowed metabolism.

   at regular intervals throughout the day. Drink a glass of water before each meal to suppress your appetite. Doing this will help you get into the habit of limiting the portions of food you consume during each meal. By drinking water, you will feel full before a meal, thus helping you consume less calories.
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   Try the fasting diet. The idea behind this diet is that our bodies were built to go through both times of feasting and times of famine--as such, we should occasionally recreate the ‘famine’ part. This diet requires that for two days each week, you should only eat 500 (if you’re a woman) or 600 (if you’re a man) calories. On those fasting days, dieters should stick to eating only vegetables, seeds, legumes, and some fruit.
   

   • This diet requires that you continue your exercise regimen on fasting days as well as on regular days.
   • Ease into it by fasting for 1/2 day and seeing how you feel before you commit to longer-term fasting.
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   Consider the HCG diet. This is a highly controversial diet that combines injections or supplements of HCG (human chorionic gonadotropin)
   

   Warning: HCG injections are not supported by scientific evidence, and may be dangerous to your health.

   with a severely restricted calorie intake.The calorie restriction alone (only 500 to 800 calories per day) is enough to promote weight loss in most people; it is significantly under the recommended daily calorie allowance, even for people attempting to lose weight. People give themselves doses of HCG via injections or in drop form.

Making an Eating Plan

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   Count calories. Knowing how the minimum amount of calories your body needs to function correctly will help you make your own personalized healthy eating plan and lose weight in a way that's quick but sustainable. Your individual calorie needs will vary based on age, gender, height, and activity level. There are online calculators you can use to determine the amount of calories you should be consuming each day.
   

   • You can also figure out how much you should be eating by scheduling a consultation with a dietitian or a physician to discuss your weight loss goals, special dietary needs, current eating habits, and potential areas for improvement.
   • Develop a meal plan. Choose meals that have a healthy balance of vegetables, fruits, whole grains, good fats, and lean proteins. A typical dinner plate should be filled with half vegetables or fruits, half whole grains and lean protein.
   • The DASH diet, the TLC diet, the Mayo Clinic Diet, the Weight Watchers diet and Volumetrics all provide great meal plans to help you lose weight starting today. Run an internet search on any of the diets and meal plans to find out more.
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   Eat foods that suppress your appetite. Eating balanced meals will not only provide you with low-calorie nutrition, it will also help to suppress your appetite so you won't overeat and foil your plans to lose weight. There are certain foods that keep you feeling sated for hours. Try incorporating the following foods into your diet:
   

   • Grapefruit
   • Oatmeal
   • Apples
   • Eggs
   • Ginger
   • Nuts
   • Leafy greens
   • Potatoes
   • Dark chocolate
   • Spicy foods
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   Keep a food diary. Write down every meal, snack, and drink you consume as well as the approximate quantities for an entire week. Writing down what you consume actually helps us to remain mindful of what we put into our bodies and acts as a motivator to stay healthy. If you can, write down the number of calories that go along with each meal or snack you eat.
   

   • Don’t forget to include coffee mix-ins, condiments, and other additions to your daily diet.
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   Identify your food triggers and plan accordingly. Food triggers are the activities we do that make us want to snack. For some people, it's sitting down to watch a movie at night; for others, it's studying late at night. If you know your food triggers, you can plan for them--fill your house with healthy snacks or have them on hand.
   

   • If you don’t purchase the unhealthy foods that you love to snack on, you will be less likely to sabotage your diet.
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   Watch your portion sizes. Incorporate appropriate portion sizes into your meal plan.
   

   Stronger flavors can help you control portion size. For example, dark chocolate or a dark beer are satisfying in small amounts, but difficult to consume rapidly.

   For instance, a healthy snack of almonds and dried cranberries can turn into a huge calorie source if you don’t pay attention to quantities. Also, preparing pre-apportioned healthy snacks can help you avoid mindless overeating and can make it convenient to grab a healthy snack.
   

   • Make a list of what you'll need for these meals, and don't stray from your list when you get to the grocery store. Looking at market circulars can also give you ideas and even cut costs by buying weekly sale items and seasonal produce.
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   Don’t skip meals. Eating a healthy breakfast increases your rest metabolic rate earlier in the day, keeps your energy levels high, and may help you resist the urge of high-calorie snacks throughout the day. Plan to eat a small snack or meal every two to four hours to keep your metabolism active. Eating regularly also keeps your blood sugar stable and reduces unhealthy calorie binges or deviations from your meal plan.
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   Avoid tempting grocery aisles. Avoid the areas in the grocery store that stock sodas, cookies, ice cream, pizzas, and other fattening and highly processed foods, so that you are less likely to purchase unhealthy options. If you can’t see them, you can’t be tempted by them.
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   Select smart substitutes for your favorite high calorie foods. Most foods have healthier counterparts that will allow you to enjoy your favorite foods without unnecessary fat, sugar, and calories. Exchanging high-calorie processed foods and drinks for healthier alternatives can help you lose weight faster.
   

   • Consider eating vegetarian a few days each week. By replacing meat with nutritious foods like beans, tofu, or lentils, you can cut significant amounts of your daily calorie intake while adding many nutrients to your diet.
   • Eat delicious fruit for dessert rather than a processed cookie or cake.
   • Swap potato chips and candy bars for snacks that are nutrient-rich and low in calories and fat. Try combining string cheese with a handful of grapes, spreading peanut butter on a few crackers, or dipping sliced red pepper into a few tablespoons of hummus.
   • Try substituting vinegar and lemon juice for your ranch or blue cheese dressing.
   • Cook with a tablespoon of olive oil instead of butter.
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   Stop drinking sugary liquids. Sip on water, tea, black coffee or seltzer instead of soft drinks, juice energy drinks, flavored coffees, and martinis. Cutting calories with substitutions can be a lot easier than you might think. For example, a tall latte in the morning may pack 500 calories. Since a pound of body fat (lost or gained) is roughly equivalent to 3,500 calories, replacing that rich beverage with black coffee can help you lose a pound per week.
   

   • Drinking water instead of soda, coffee, alcohol, juice, or milk may help you cut hundreds of calories per day. Increasing your water intake can also help your body efficiently use nutrients, keep you energized, get the most benefit from your exercise routine, and feel full longer.
     
     
   • If you can handle substituting water for all other drinks for a week, you can expect faster weight loss and see dramatic improvement in energy levels and even appearance very quickly.

Doing Weight Loss Treatments

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   Go to a sauna. Saunas may result in a loss of a pint of sweat in just a quarter of an hour.
   

   People with blood pressure or heart problems should not use saunas, nor should young children. To prevent dehydration, limit sauna time to 15 or 20 minutes per day.

   Again, this, like most very-quick-fix treatments that cause various kinds of excretion, is just a way to drop water weight, making you slim down for a day or so. This is not a permanent weight loss method. You should hydrate by drinking a few glasses of water after spending time in a sauna to reduce the risk of dehydration.
   

   • If you are losing weight for a wrestling or similar weigh-in (a widespread unhealthy practice), go do that before you rehydrate.
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   Ask about a mineral body wrap. Some mineral wraps claim to help you slim down by literally making you “lose” inches off of your waist, thighs, and arms. The process involves a mineral-based cleanse that is supposed to detoxify your body, helping you shed weight, reduce cellulite (fat near the surface of your skin), and tone and firm your skin almost instantly.
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   Consider other kinds of wraps. While the mineral body wrap is the most common, there are other kinds of wraps that claim to shed inches from your waistline. Again, these are not permanent weight loss options but they could help you slim down for that special day.
   

   • Get a lipase body wrap. Lipase body wraps are another quick-slim beauty treatment that follow a two-step phase. First, an enzyme wrap is applied to rid your body of fat tissue near the surface of the skin. A second mineral wrap is then applied, designed to tighten and smooth your skin.
     
     
   • Get a European body wrap. European body wraps are another potential option for spa services aimed at dropping inches off of trouble spots. This procedure is supposed to firm and tone skin, reduce the appearance of cellulite or stretch marks, and temporarily promotes weight loss.
     
     
   • Get a hot body wrap. Heat-based body wraps are perhaps a more well-known spa treatment, designed both to detoxify your body and stimulate smooth, toned skin. The heat and massage involved in most heat or steam treatments is targeted at improving circulation and helping your body slim down quickly.
     
     
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   Get a colonic. Some spas offer colonic irrigation treatments, which involve physically flushing your colon
   

   Colonics may be harmful if performed incorrectly, or purely for the sake of weight loss. Talk to your doctor before you decide on this treatment.

   with large amounts of water to remove fecal accumulation. This process may help some people who suffer from bloating, gas, and constipation and claims to spur weight loss in some individuals.
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   Consider liposuction. Liposuction is a surgical option for fast, targeted weight loss, generally only recommended for people with one or two specific areas of highly fatty tissue but otherwise relatively healthy body weight. Because it is a surgical procedure, it carries significant health risks and should only be performed by a licensed professional.

Other Proven Diets

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   Do the Mediterranean diet. While no diet out there has been proven to work, the Mediterranean diet may come closest. It's based on the traditional ingredients and cooking styles of people living near the Mediterranean sea. Research has shown that people adhering to this diet have reduced risk of heart disease - plus it helps you shed pounds and look lean and trim. Focus on eating the following foods (and eliminate bread, dairy and processed foods):
   

   • Fish
   • Olive oil
   • Vegetables
   • Fruit
   • Beans and other legumes
   • Spices
   • Nuts
   • Red wine
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   Try the paleo diet. Back when cavemen still ruled the earth, they didn't have time to bake cupcakes or fry potato chips. The paleo diet (short for paleolithic) seeks to recreate the same diet that our early ancestors ate, claiming that our systems are not built for modern ingredients and cooking styles. You eat meat, vegetables, fruit, and other foods that would have been available back then, and avoid anything paleo people wouldn't have had.
   

   • No artificial sweeteners or grains are allowed.
   • Some people incorporate intermittent fasting into the paleo diet as well, to speed up weight loss.
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   Do the Whole30 diet. The idea behind this diet is to eliminate all processed foods from your diet for 30 days to cleanse your system of artificial ingredients and other processed items that are hard on your digestive system. After 30 days, you'll notice a reduced waistline and higher energy levels.
   

   • Avoid grains, dairy, sugars, legumes, alcohol and all processed foods.
   • Eat meat, vegetables, some fruits, and drink plenty of water.
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   Do the raw food diet. If you dislike meat and are tired of cooking, this one's for you.
   

   Dietitians warn that a long term raw food diet may leave you without essential nutrients.

   The raw food diet consists entirely of foods that have not been cooked. You lose weight by consuming loads of fresh vegetables and fruits. Coconut milk, nuts, seeds and other uncooked foods are also allowed on the raw food diet.

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